Psychic Rhiannon Paille

There's no room in the world for good guys. For the last few years I've conducted my business with myriads of female clients all with different problems relating to males. Some of them are going through relationship cycles, some are holding out for long love loves or soulmates, others are traipsing their way through the hot and cold battle with a man who just doesn't get it and others are trying to better understand their man so that they can be there for him in a greater capacity. Most of them want the same thing, a man that loves and cherishes them and sees all that they are doing for him. They want him to wake up and smell the coffee, they want him to call when he promises to call, and they want him to be affectionate, sensitive and independant.

The funny thing is that it's never the men calling me, it's always the women worried about their man. The men on the other hand seem to think they have it all figured out for the most part. They think they know what they're doing, and what they want, or at least they did up until recently. 

Lately I've been seeing a new type of client fit into my clientele, and that is the confused male. I'm suddenly finding men who are actually plagued by the same problems that the women are plagued by! Interesting to see the shoe on the other foot, and interesting to see that there's no real difference between the stress levels, the wants, the desires, and even the problems they're having with the woman. As it turns out, the women can be just as bad as the men they're always complaining about!

I digress however because when I have had the pleasure of reading for a man, and specifically tapping into the female mind, I have noticed that there is a huge problem with the way women view men.

Women talk three times more than men do, that's actually a fact, and since most of us have a man in our lives, it's just natural that we would talk about him. The problem is that we've all created a stereotype of a male, and believe me, he's not Fabio, he's more like Homer Simpson. That's right, currently the stereotypical male is someone that is fat, lazy, stupid, dirty, arrogant, ignorant, insensitive, insecure, childish, self centered, interested only in sex, and needy.

I suppose we can blame it on the feminist movements in the past few decades, the equalization of women in the workplace, the supermoms of the world who run the household, cook, clean, take care of the kids and work a part time job. We can blame it on all the bitter women in the world who actually happened to know a man who was the epitomy of above, we can even blame it on movies and television. At the end of the day though, we have nobody to blame but ourselves. 

Men have lost their place in the world, they're not expected to be the bread winners, nor are they expected to look after children, repair their houses, cook, clean or do laundry. They're not even expected to drive their own vehicles.Men in today's society really don't know where they fit. They can spend their whole lives trying to climb the corporate ladder, but there's ten times the competition there used to be due to all the females and all the minority groups in need of success in the world.

We wonder why men treat women badly, why they whine and complain all the time, why they feel like instant failures no matter what they do, well take a look at what they're up against!

Men have lost their respect in the world, they've lost their power, they've lost their personal security, and they've lost themselves.Men feel useless because women have become so independant, so strong and so self reliant.

Next time you feel the need to criticize your man, take a minute to step back and ask yourself if it's really justified. Are you jumping to conclusions? Are you trying to nip some type of bad behaviour in the bud? Are you reacting because of the stereotypes? Or are you just upset that he's being a man and doing what men do? Sometimes we need to give them the benefit of the doubt, sometimes we need to let them be the providers they used to be, and sometimes we need to give them the respect and dignity they deserve.

- Rhi

Officially breeched 4000 ratings a couple days ago.

Odd to think that just a year ago I had breeched 3000.

And each year that passes, is another milestone for me.

I'm actually turning 25 this year.

Funny to see where I am now compared to 5 years ago. 5 year ago I never would have thought I could end up here.

But yet, here I am . . .makes me wonder where I'll be 5 years from now . . .

I'm eventually gonna make a video about me, and give you the whole Psychic Rhiannon life scoop.

I was thinking about doing this candid, but there's so much life to talk about that I really would have to cut and paste what made the greatest impacts.

That and then how do I explain myself without sounding fluffy?

I've also been watching other psychic videos online and wow, they're really horrid. Go ahead and search youtube, live person and see what comes up. It's scary.

So I've been writing a couple of things, and when I come up with the full flow for the video then I will post the vid.

Just know that I haven't forgotten about it, I just don't want you sitting here watching me talk for like 30 minutes or something!

Namaste,

Rhiannon

There seems to be a growing obsession with this game, as though each and every psychic is completely incapable of assisting clients unless their abilities have been test driven by the client.

There's many ways it has happened to me in sessions, either the client simply wants to abuse the connect before hiring policy I have by extending it far beyond the verification I give them, or they quite bluntly tell me they need me to connect first, or even worse, tell me they'd like to test me first.

I find it ironic because in each and every session I do I am being tested, everyday. Not to mention the fact that I've been tested by three different psychic certification agencies, all who have told me I have strong capabilities. Then there's also the years of experience behind me, the close to 4000 ratings and of course the education in Metaphysics.

I can't say that the game is fair, and this is for a good reason. It's the fact that any other professional is trusted based on their qualifications hanging on the wall. You don't go to a doctor and decide you need to test them before they help you heal, nor do you do it to the dentist, the psychologist, the plumber, the technician or even the mechanic! You're more likely to be turned down than helped in the long run.

It's just plain rude to take advantage of anyone that is offering their time, their expertise, their insight, and their guidance. It's hard enough to find someone in this world that is willing to help someone out, willing to listen, willing to be there. The least one can do is be grateful for it and give something in return for that person's generosity.

I personally value my gifts and my ability to help others with it. I live by the philosophy of Dr. Mikao Usui, the founder of Reiki. In his biography he explains that when he originally founded the healing energies, he went straight to those in the most dire need, healing them and helping them to improve their lives by working, instead of begging. He found that through the healing work he did, these people were able to improve their lives. Dr. Usui moved on to others that needed healing because so many were in need.

However, months, sometimes even weeks later, the same people were back in the gutter, living the same life they had been freed from. Dr. Usui learned the lesson that anything that does not have a value to it, is not valued. These people did not have to work for their freedom, they didn't need to pay for it, and so living a free life was no more to them than a free lunch.

The philosophy that developed was the understanding that when anything is given, an exchange must occur. Both parties must benefit from the exchange. Sometimes this came across as trade, but most commonly it became monetary exchange for services. The bottom line however is that any services, or goods that are not valued enough by the owner to have a price tag attached them, will not be valued at all by any others that take advantage of those services or goods. Basically, anything free is worthless to everyone, whether owner or receiver.

Unfortunately in today's world, greed has taken many people over. Since the world went into a recession, people have become monsters, believing that all companies should have a sale on, that the government should magickally fix the problem and make everyone wealthy. People are brainwashed by the belief that they deserve to have a few free handouts. The only result is that they've lost respect for the world around them. There is no longer a balance of giving and receiving. Instead of being part of the solution, they are adding to the problem. 

In my world, that obsession comes across as the test the psychic game. The game where all the answers come free without hire, and the client leaves with a hollow satisfaction that will only add to their misery in the long run.

The simple truth of it is that we're all a victim of the same problem. The fault doesn't fall on the doctor, the dentist, or the mechanic, it falls on every one of us. The only way to restore the balance is to restore the sanctity of giving and receiving. Giving to others what we can, in order to receive that which we need. By doing so, we restore our respect in the world, we make another person's day brighter, and we get that much closer to the glory days we were so used to living in. 

Truly there is no need for the game, who I am hasn't been changed by the unfortunate state of the world. I'm still here to help people realize that the happiness they long for, can be found in time with hard work, dedication and patience. Similarly, as I have not changed, neither has my integrity or my beliefs. I still believe that anything that is not valued is worthless, and I still believe that what I offer is very valuable.

I'd like to invite you to take a closer look at your actions this month, and see for yourself how many times you think of giving something to someone, versus receiving. You may be surprised by yourself, and you may realize that it's time to find the balance again.

Namaste,

Rhiannon

When being different doesn't help.

I pulled Sapphyre out of another day care.

Why this time?

It was pretty clear as we were leaving and I was thinking about her going for a bath when we got home. I hadn't said anything to her but she looked at me as we were walking to the van and said,

"Mommy, I don't want to have a bath!"

*sigh*

I reassured her, but I'm still upset over the fact that she gets singled out at day care for being different. Her teachers complain about little things, like sunscreen, clothing, and her aversions to certain things.

She's just a special child, you would think enough of them were being born that one wouldn't make such an impact on people.

What hurts more is that I can't change this.

I can see her future, her lonely childhood stretched out ahead of her, other kids avoiding her because she's odd, because her mommy and daddy are different.

I'm so mad that she's going to spend the summer at home, away from her friends. I hate isolating her, but it was clear today that she cannot continue to be subjected to a toxic atmosphere.

I hope kindergarten is a more positive experience for her.

I hope the world will not ostacize her for her differences, for her absurdities.

Ugh, in all honesty, there are days when being different just sucks.

Namaste,

Rhiannon

Have you gone to the movies lately? If so, you've probably seenthe commercials they show on screen in the "preshow", and maybe you'veseen this one! I personally was there to see the new Wolverine movie,and I have to say it was pretty good.

I actually forget which media outlet was running this, but the question wassimple: If you could have a super power, which would you have and why?

The answers varied from people who wanted to fly so they didn't have to payairfare, people who wanted to control time so they could sleep in,people who could manifest money, people who wanted to become invisible,to people who wanted to be able to teleport, and so on and so forth.

Then FINALLY someone said it!

"I think I'd like to be able to read minds or see the future."

I had to hold myself down from laughing. I leaned towards myhusband and repeated it sarcastically in his ear because I found thisrather ironic.

Since when was being psychic considered a super power!?

Betteryet, why on earth do all these movies portray superheroes wearing funnylooking costumes, chasing after some mega bad guy, and using theircrazy mutated super powers to do it!?

Why do they evencall them powers!? I don't like to think I have more power than thenext person, I'm just here to help, and to be quite honest with you, Idon't think of myself as a super hero, and I don't go chasing after badguys with super frog tongue powers!

I also love howmost of them got their abilities, bit by a spider, crash landed fromanother planet, born into a world of mutants - wait! Does that make mea mutant!?

I mean none of these peoplejust woke up one day and felt something, they all had some disastrousthing happen to them, some traumatic experience, and then they proceedto run around the world looking for others like them, creating covertmissions to take down the ones that ended up with all the bad abilities(I'm not even gonna go there because most of the bad guys ended up withsome pretty gross powers) and then they are heralded for saving theworld!

It truly boggles my mind howpsychic ability suddenly became a super power, something that onlysuperheroes possess, and something only seen in movies and television,like it's some sort of fictional phenomenon.

I find it fascinating how in the dark people can be sometimes.

Oh and of course as I am writing this, another Ani DiFranco song comes on, it's called Superhero. Enjoy the lyrics!

sleep walking through the all-nite drug store

baptized in fluorescent light

i found religion in the greeting card aisle

now i know hallmark was right

and every pop song on the radio

is suddenly speaking to me

art may imitate life

but life imitates t.v.

'cuz you've been gone exactly two weeks

two weeks and three days

and let's just say that

things look different now

different in so many ways

i used to be a superhero

no one could touch me

not even myself

you are like a phone booth

that i somehow stumbled into

and now look at me

i am just like everybody else

if i was dressed in my best defenses

would you agree to meet me for coffee

if i did my tricks with smoke and mirrors

would you still know which one was me

if i was naked and screaming

on your front lawn

would you turn on the light and come down

screaming, there's the asshole

who did this to me

stripped me of my power

stripped me down

i used to be a superhero

no one could touch me

not even myself

you are like a phone booth

that i somehow stumbled into

and now look at me

i am just like everybody else

yeah you've been gone exactly two weeks

two weeks and three days

and now i'm a different person

different in so many ways

tell me what did you like about me

and don't say my strength and daring

'cuz now i think i'm at your mercy

and it's my first time for this kind of thing

i used to be a superhero

i would swoop down and save me

from myself

but you are like a phone booth

that i somehow stumbled into

and now look at me

i am just like everybody else

Namaste,

Rhiannon